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Feminism to blame for obesity? Fat chance 
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/sep/21/feminism-and-home-cooking

“I’m no Barbie dollI’m not your baby girlI’ve done ugly thingsAnd I have made mistakesAnd I am not as pretty as those girls in magazinesI am rotten to my core if they’re to be believedSo what if I’m no baby bird hanging upon your every wordNothing ever smells of roses that rises out of mud” - Why do you love me, Garbage

I’m no Barbie doll
I’m not your baby girl
I’ve done ugly things
And I have made mistakes
And I am not as pretty as those girls in magazines
I am rotten to my core if they’re to be believed

So what if I’m no baby bird hanging upon your every word
Nothing ever smells of roses that rises out of mud” - Why do you love me, Garbage

enjoyyourstyle:

This is a collage I made from an old issue of “Cosmopolitan” magazine. All of the text you see was taken from inside the magazine, cut out and pasted onto the cover, to give the reader a more accurate idea of the magazine’s contents.
As the owner of a style/fashion/beauty website, I hate women’s magazines like this. Style should be about discovering, inventing and expressing yourself. At the very least, style (as something to learn and explore) should make you feel good. But the messages sent by these magazines lower the reader’s consciousness and increase her myopic self-absorption, at the expense of self-awareness and deep thought.
Another problem I have with these magazines is their scattershot approach to self-improvement. It’s bad enough that they do harm; they ought not to pretend to do good as well. Their so-called “helpful” articles (“Food for Healthy Breasts,” “Your OB/GYN and You,” “Binge Drinking”) have a few facts, taken out of context and endorsed by an anonymous doctor at the Mayo Clinic or somewhere like that. No one can remember these tidbits for more than a few minutes, at best. It would be better, and more honest, to recommend a series of nonfiction books which present this information systematically, such as “The Young Woman’s Guide to Her Body,” “Healthy Food, Happy Life” or “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Alcohol and Drugs (But Were Afraid to Ask).” (These aren’t real books, just examples.)
I would like to make a webpage about body image and the media on Enjoy Your Style. If you like this collage, please make one of your own and submit it. If you’d like me to make a few more of these, or develop this a bit more, please consider donating so I can buy these magazines and spend time improving their covers, to say nothing of doing the research.

enjoyyourstyle:

This is a collage I made from an old issue of “Cosmopolitan” magazine. All of the text you see was taken from inside the magazine, cut out and pasted onto the cover, to give the reader a more accurate idea of the magazine’s contents.

As the owner of a style/fashion/beauty website, I hate women’s magazines like this. Style should be about discovering, inventing and expressing yourself. At the very least, style (as something to learn and explore) should make you feel good. But the messages sent by these magazines lower the reader’s consciousness and increase her myopic self-absorption, at the expense of self-awareness and deep thought.

Another problem I have with these magazines is their scattershot approach to self-improvement. It’s bad enough that they do harm; they ought not to pretend to do good as well. Their so-called “helpful” articles (“Food for Healthy Breasts,” “Your OB/GYN and You,” “Binge Drinking”) have a few facts, taken out of context and endorsed by an anonymous doctor at the Mayo Clinic or somewhere like that. No one can remember these tidbits for more than a few minutes, at best. It would be better, and more honest, to recommend a series of nonfiction books which present this information systematically, such as “The Young Woman’s Guide to Her Body,” “Healthy Food, Happy Life” or “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Alcohol and Drugs (But Were Afraid to Ask).” (These aren’t real books, just examples.)

I would like to make a webpage about body image and the media on Enjoy Your Style. If you like this collage, please make one of your own and submit it. If you’d like me to make a few more of these, or develop this a bit more, please consider donating so I can buy these magazines and spend time improving their covers, to say nothing of doing the research.


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"Idealization: A love object is overvalued and idealized."

"How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself."

~ Anais Nin
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